Does any of this sound familiar?

Lost, confused, stuck. You feel as if you’re trapped in a routine or situation, and aren’t sure about how to get through the changes and transitions that come with midlife. This is eating you from the inside out, because you usually like to have a plan and have your next steps figured out.

Overwhelmed by change. So many changes are coming at you at the same time in midlife: career dissatisfaction, relationship challenges, health concerns, a general sense of existential questioning about the direction of your life – and many more. You feel like you’ve lost control.

You feel guilty. Because you have it all, and still you’re not happy. Even more, you feel dissatisfied with life, frustrated and restless. You keep thinking you’ve made the wrong choices in life, or that your life hasn’t turned out as expected.

There has to be more than this. When you look at your life, you feel unfulfilled. You long for something more meaningful in life, you want to make a difference and do something that matters – but you’re not sure how to go about it. 

You’re afraid of becoming irrelevant. As you grow older, other people’s assumptions about your skills, talents and personality impact how they perceive you. Age bias might come into play. You’re worried about being written off and overtaken by younger people, and don’t know how to remain relevant.



Could you relate to any (or all) of the above? Don’t worry, we totally get you. Thankfully, you’re in the right place.


Not all storms come to disrupt your life. Some come to clear your path.

Now, imagine how it would feel if you could…

Feel prepared for the next chapter in life, with a clear goal, razor-sharp focus and deep self-knowledge.

Chart your course to living a happy and fulfilling life, aligned to your values, your purpose and your personal traits.

Overcome your fears and limiting beliefs, with the confidence, positive mindset and resilience to handle any changes life throws your way.

Make a positive impact on the world, using your talents, strengths and wisdom to contribute to something bigger than yourself.

Achieve all of this, with the support and friendship of a like-minded community of midlifers who are facing similar challenges, asking the same questions and forging their own path forward.

Introducing: Transforming Midlife

Transforming Midlife is an on-demand program aimed at midlifers to build purpose, take charge of life and become unstuck.

What you’ll get from this program:

  • Access to four individual modules. The program is on-demand, so you choose when and where to access, and determine your own speed. You will have access to the video modules for 12 months. All content can be downloaded as PDF.
  • 60+ actionable exercises in an interactive downloadable workbook.
  • Membership of the amazing Crossroads Community (on this website, not a Facebook Community)
  • Time to reflect on your life, your experiences, your hopes and aspirations.
  • The inspiration, resources and tools to develop your own roadmap.
  • The mindset to think differently and seize opportunities.

What is covered in the Transforming Midlife program:

Setting the scene

Understanding why you’re feeling the way you do, and starting on the road towards a bold, heartfelt, attainable goal.

Fostering purpose

Uncovering values, strengths, traits and joys to unlock fresh possibilities and embrace your new path.

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Steering through transitions

A practical roadmap to your personal goal and expert guidance to help you thrive during a transformational period.

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Rewriting the narrative of aging

Reframe your story with a fresh perspective that celebrates the richness of experience and wisdom.

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This program is right for you if:

  • You need to become unstuck and prepared for what’s next
  • You want to feel inspired and supported by a community of midlifers
  • You’re ready to set a goal for yourself, and follow through on it
  • You’re curious how to ignite purpose and meaning in midlife, and have a societal impact
  • You want to feel confident, relevant and empowered in yourself
  • You’re happy to put in the time and effort to get there by watching the module videos, reading the documents, completing the exercises and taking action on what you’ve learned


Questions you might be asking

After enrolling, you will receive an email with your log-in details and you can get started immediately.

No, there aren’t. It helps if you’re somewhere close to or already in midlife – but everyone is welcome to sign up!

After enrolling, you have 12 months access to the module videos and all downloadable documents. During this time, you can revisit or retake the course at any moment. 

You have access to the community for as long as it is active. So even after your access to the course itself has stopped (after 12 months), you will still be able to connect with the community!

It’s a self-paced course, so that depends on you. We encourage you to set aside 2 hours per week to watch the videos and work through the exercises, and another hour to revisit the exercises throughout the week. 

The four modules are available immediately upon enrolling.  We’ve organised them in such a way that they build upon each other, so you will need to finish a video or exercise before you can access the next one. 

The best time to start building a more fulfilling life is now.